You lose some, you gain some
Recently someone i knew suddenly disappeared. Nooo... not that kind of kidnapped sort of scenario, basically just "uncontactable". How should one react when faced such a situation? OK first of all, what would be your reaction to someone you know or keep in touch often just suddenly stops contacting you? I suppose you will try to reach that person right? ok... and after a few days realized you don't see that person online. Thoughts will start pouring in on what did you do to that person. Then there are some ppl who are the kind that cannot stand being high and dry with no answers in sight. naturally one would want to know what's going on, why why why and stuff. Then you realized... ok maybe you did pester a bit too much with the sms asking what's going on... but in actual fact it may not seem that much anyway. And then a week passes by, another week goes and still no a word from that person.
How would you react to that? Do you blame yourself, for what you had did that could possibly caused this situation? Or do you start to wonder what's really going on with the other party, especially when it's not the first time that has happened? Only this time it's gone further than before and still... nothing.
Yeah you might have figured it out that that's what i'm facing now (duh). I treat her a great friend to talk to and hang out, and from what i heard from other sources she treats me like a brother. things seems alright until poof... some magic has been perfomed and no replies, no call pick-ups and the obvious fact that i'm on her block list in MSN. Plus somewhat related to this matter, i suspect another person has also added me in their block list. sheesh.
Rather than persuing this situation or matter, i chose to move on. Learnt from the past that thinking and pondering doesnt really help at all, i'm just trying to be optimistic that hopefully i'd hope to hear from them soon.... and in the meantime carry on with my life.
They say there are many other fishies out there in the big big sea. Right now I'm hanging out with one of them :D... and guess what, she has been around much more longer than i've been on this planet. :p
How would you react to that? Do you blame yourself, for what you had did that could possibly caused this situation? Or do you start to wonder what's really going on with the other party, especially when it's not the first time that has happened? Only this time it's gone further than before and still... nothing.
Yeah you might have figured it out that that's what i'm facing now (duh). I treat her a great friend to talk to and hang out, and from what i heard from other sources she treats me like a brother. things seems alright until poof... some magic has been perfomed and no replies, no call pick-ups and the obvious fact that i'm on her block list in MSN. Plus somewhat related to this matter, i suspect another person has also added me in their block list. sheesh.
Rather than persuing this situation or matter, i chose to move on. Learnt from the past that thinking and pondering doesnt really help at all, i'm just trying to be optimistic that hopefully i'd hope to hear from them soon.... and in the meantime carry on with my life.
They say there are many other fishies out there in the big big sea. Right now I'm hanging out with one of them :D... and guess what, she has been around much more longer than i've been on this planet. :p
posted by Tommy at 10:19 PM
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